IF LOVE WAS SEX

Is love sex?

  Ones love  is not a measure of his sexual acrobatics and indiscipline.

  This two things has largely been misinterpreted and misused. I can love you yet not sleep with. In the same vein I can sleep with you and there is no love any bit for you.

 Sex to so many is an urge that must be responded too.

According to pastor Kingsley Okoronkwo, " Sex to a common man can be likened to a person who when pressed rushes to the rest room to ease himself regardless of how the room looks, his immediate need is to satisfy the pressing demand of his body". 

A man  can pay a prostitute, It takes grace for him to marry her. Its unthinkable for him to start dating her; only when he wants an ease, that he visit the brothel or even go out of his way just to be sexually satisfied. Thats not love. Thats lust.

Most time people are lust addicts simply because they are love starved..

Sex and love are two different thing.

Love is good

So is sex...

Only that they be well understood and used..

A man in need of sex can be a fool just to satisfy his desire at that moment after then he gets back to his sense. He can promise you the world not until his "press" is "eased". Beware!

  We live in a world where people are love starved thinking they are sex starved.

Families are breaking up everyday for the lack of love. You can be weary of sex but never of love. 

  Before the knot was tied in marriage some thought it was all about money and sex, until they discovered that love is more than just that. More than just beauty, fame, physique, wealth and intellectual expertise. Then they got tired. 

They could go on and on restless rounds on the bed of romance and sex only to find out that sex could not bring the happiness and fulfilment that love, communication, character, vision and other ingredients of great life can brings.

How many ladies have sold out there destinies to men just for a one night stand..

Don't get me wrong. Sex is not bad and its natural to be  sex "pressed " but that's not the evidence of love. You got to get your erection under control so it does not give you direction. Likewise too.

Does that not explain why a man would spend a night with his wife and send her packing the next day.

 Have you not seen couples divorced few months or years after marriage?

 Suddenly that romance once shared becomes obsolete a thing of the past.

Please do not be deceived ladies, if a guy loves you there are numerous good ways to express his love rather than an addictive behaviour of sex.

You too do know it so neglect them not.

A man that sleeps with you before marrying you is a cheat.

Look out for people who seek to make you better. People who are  committed to your purpose and deeply love you for who you are rather than what  satisfaction your body can offer them.

Love is not sex!

If love was sex prostitutes will be in love!