Monday, June 22, 2020

IF LOVE WAS SEX

Is love sex?
  Ones love  is not a measure of his sexual acrobatics and indiscipline.

  This two things has largely been misinterpreted and misused. I can love you yet not sleep with. In the same vein I can sleep with you and there is no love any bit for you.

 Sex to so many is an urge that must be responded too.
According to pastor Kingsley Okoronkwo, " Sex to a common man can be likened to a person who when pressed rushes to the rest room to ease himself regardless of how the room looks, his immediate need is to satisfy the pressing demand of his body". 

A man  can pay a prostitute, It takes grace for him to marry her. Its unthinkable for him to start dating her; only when he wants an ease, that he visit the brothel or even go out of his way just to be sexually satisfied. Thats not love. Thats lust.
Most time people are lust addicts simply because they are love starved..

Sex and love are two different thing.
Love is good
So is sex...
Only that they be well understood and used..
A man in need of sex can be a fool just to satisfy his desire at that moment after then he gets back to his sense. He can promise you the world not until his "press" is "eased". Beware!

  We live in a world where people are love starved thinking they are sex starved.
Families are breaking up everyday for the lack of love. You can be weary of sex but never of love. 

  Before the knot was tied in marriage some thought it was all about money and sex, until they discovered that love is more than just that. More than just beauty, fame, physique, wealth and intellectual expertise. Then they got tired. 



They could go on and on restless rounds on the bed of romance and sex only to find out that sex could not bring the happiness and fulfilment that love, communication, character, vision and other ingredients of great life can brings.

How many ladies have sold out there destinies to men just for a one night stand..

Don't get me wrong. Sex is not bad and its natural to be  sex "pressed " but that's not the evidence of love. You got to get your erection under control so it does not give you direction. Likewise too.

Does that not explain why a man would spend a night with his wife and send her packing the next day.
 Have you not seen couples divorced few months or years after marriage?

 Suddenly that romance once shared becomes obsolete a thing of the past.

Please do not be deceived ladies, if a guy loves you there are numerous good ways to express his love rather than an addictive behaviour of sex.
You too do know it so neglect them not.
A man that sleeps with you before marrying you is a cheat.

Look out for people who seek to make you better. People who are  committed to your purpose and deeply love you for who you are rather than what  satisfaction your body can offer them.
Love is not sex!

If love was sex prostitutes will be in love!

Thursday, June 18, 2020

Do you know that Animals dream too!

It could be a lie to say that any of us dont dream..
Dreams can be very broad in discouse but we generally see dream as beyond the real life pictures-mostly what a large number experience at night.
Do you dream?
What do you know about your dream?
We bring you amazing and thrilling fact about dreams you should know..
Enjoy the read..

DO YOU KNOW THAT?

1. You forget 90% of your dreams.

2. The average person has about 1460 dreams a year.

3. Most of us dream every 90 minutes.

4. The longest dreams occurs in the morning and that could be 30-40 minutes.

5. Your dreams are like a mirror. They reflect your inner most feelings about the world and the people around you.

6. Tripping in your dream and waking up with a twitch. This happens when your brain thinks you are dying.

7. Psychology says, when a person appears in your dreams, they want to see you.

8. Dream often reveal feelings that we have repressed, because dreams are a reflection of our subconscious mind, our emotional truth.

9. Dreams carry more weight and meaning than our conscious thoughts while awake.

10. Animals dream too.

MONEY IS NOT THE SOLUTION TO POVERTY!

"The best way to solve the problem of bad financial results is to change our thoughts-to start thinking like rich people rather than poor and middle-class people. That means loosing the entitlement mentally-whether you are a military officer, government worker, schoolteacher, employee or just poor. If we do not stop expecting the government to take care of us, we will continue to have the same results-a bankrupt nation filled with well_educated but financially needy people".
 
Albert Einsteen defined insanity as " doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results ".

Money cannot solve poverty!
The one problem money cannot solve is poverty. While there are many underlying causes of poverty, one of the causes is a lack of financial education!



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Tuesday, June 16, 2020

DRESS YOUR STRESS!

WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT STRESS?
Do you know that:
1. It is a complete myth that stress can turn hair gray, it can cause hair loss. In fact, hair loss can begin up to three months after a stressful event.

2. In recent studies, the top most stressful jobs are a surgeon, commercial airline pilot, photojournalist, advertising account executive, and real estate agent. The least stressful jobs were actuary, dietitian, astronomer, systems analyst, and software engineer.

3. The top three stressful cities in America are Chicago, Illinois; Los Angeles, California; and New York, New York.

4. Stress can make acne worse. Researchers say stress-related inflammation rather than a rise is sebum (the oily substance in skin) is to blame.

5. Laughing lowers stress hormones (like cortisol, epinephrine, and adrenaline) and strengthens the immune system by releasing health-enhancing hormones.

6. The stress hormone cortisol not only causes abdominal fat to accumulate, but it also enlarges individual fat cells, leading to what researchers call “diseased” fat.

7.Stress is linked to the six leading causes of death: heart disease, cancer, lung ailments, accidents, liver cirrhosis, and suicide.

8.The stress of caring for a disabled spouse increases the risk of stroke substantially.

9. Chronic stress can impair the developmental growth in children by lowering the production of growth hormone from the pituitary gland.

10. A CNN poll reveals that the number one reason for stress in most countries is money. The countries most stressed about money are Malaysia, China, Singapore, and the United States. The countries least stressed about money are Russia, France, and Italy....
It is almost, if not impossible to live without stress. Take time to relax and rid yourself of much stress Dress your stress!
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Monday, June 15, 2020

Why separate me from my love?

Why do you ponder?

My lover

Dear soul brother

Do not bother

Yes yet another

There is a border

That we don't further

But with Gods order

No man shall put assunder!


 Don't give up on your passion
 Mark attract erasers!
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Sunday, June 14, 2020

IS YOUR WAIST A WASTE?


TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN 
      Twerking! Twerking!! Twerking!!!

I don't mean to be rude but beautiful endowned lady, Is this what he created you for? 
To be frivolous, wayward and senseless?
What has happened to our sense of womanhood and feministy.

I appreciate the concept of feminism only that it has been grossly misinterpreted.
Just because we believe our rights and entitlements certain people particularly the feminine folks has embraced stupidity and utter madness.

We all talk about rape as though that's the only ill in the society...
We live in a society where a woman's butt, boobs, wig...e.t.c is becoming a centre of tourism.. Disgusting!

Where were the days when the beauty of a woman was an appeal of her character, decency and tenderness?
Is chastity now an old stuff?

What has happen to our sacred values and cultures?
What has eaten up our pride?
Now people even brag about how good she unleashes her sex styles on the bed...

Virgins are in extinction because that moral has been brutally crucified..
I really do not mean to be be lewd or deregotary but if care is not taken we will see no reason to even cloth our nakedness again. There is more to beauty and attraction.

What every great person admire in a woman is not just her physical make-up.there is much more to that.
Sonner or later even twerking could be a registered course in institutions.

You mean you wear a wig of 100k when your brain really needs a book!
I believe we can have fun but not when it threatens our values and morality as a people.

Beautiful girl with big "front" and "back"
Are you an answer to generations or a destroyer of destiny and purpose.
The power of a woman is internal not necessarily her charm.


God did not just create us women just to flirt around guys, go partying and twerk away our strength. Let's all adjust to become  better women who are great contributors to the advancement of the society! The likes of prof Dora Akunyili, Priscilla Shireh(war room), Mother Theresa e.t.c

Our question should be..
What am I here for especially as a girl?
To just  make up and twerk all the long?
To find a man and only marry(some has gone as far as breast enlargement and all those funny madness)? Lols
There is more dear.

Wake up oh Zions daughters and take a work with your inspired vision from God.
Since he made you awesome with amazing grace, beauty and strength,
your physique should activate inner powers towards your purpose for a better world!

Look good, dress cool.
I sincerely do admire neatly dressed ladies but not the half naked ones-the wrong pictures can be sent too! Build more on  things that last! 

From answers I have got, there is no positive reason or impact of packaged nudity...
Live a good life with all you got..live to make a mark.

Mother theresa and Mary slessor are not in the pages of history because they were great strippers or twerk champions..
What's your legacy?

What will you be remembered for?
An impactful life or that big boob-butted girl who twerked her waist away.
Your waist is not a waste..
For the love for women!
Embrace true
#Feminity
#Dignity
#chastity
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Thursday, June 11, 2020

This thing called fear! P. H. O. B. I. A.

 This thing called fear! Irrational fear at that! P. H. O. B. I. A.
How much do you know about phobia
Let's start with the A's today..
Achluophobia : Irrational fear of dark places 

2. Acoustic phobia: Irrational fear of sounds 
 
3. Acrophobia : Irrational fear of heights 

4. Aerophobia : Irrational fear of aero planes or flying or air 

5. Agoraphobia : Irrational fear of open space 

6. Ailurophobe : Irrational fear of cats 

7. Anglophobia: Irrational fear of pain 

8. Androphobia : Irrational fear of men 

9. Aerophobia: Irrational fear of wind 

10. Apiophobia : Irrational fear of bees 

Sunday, June 7, 2020

SLEEP PATNERS WITH POVERTY!

 If you do a total of 8  hours sleep everyday, at 24 you have spent 8 years of your life sleeping! Like a full medical degree was spent on sleep. Lols. You can even have two degress with that for  4 years courses.

Combine with the hours you spend online making nothing out of it. Is that not crazy?
 Get me well;
 
Sleeping isnt bad at all. It is very necessary we have good rest but not at the detriment of our goals especially as youths! Pleasure impedes our progress if not well handled. You still sleep the same amount you slept over 18 years ago as a child!
  Not good at all
              Plans at stake

   Is this the way you want to continue and make the money you dream about?
you can't buy those luxurious cars you envisage just dreaming them.
Not even a house in lekki or banana island can come the right way  just fantasing. Even yahoo guys don't sleep always. They keep there eyes fixed on the screen hoping all day long.
  It is well accepted a fact that time is money..
So let's wisen up..

Check out great men! They rest reasonably. God neither sleeps nor slumber. If he does na better palava ooo.
As matter of fact he only rest. He rested from his work of creation. Rest is not sleep! Sleeping consumes our consciousness! We entirely unconscious even of our own existence. OSleep partners with poverty!
One cannot be productive at sleep but can at rest.

You love the ants right? maybe because of solomons illustration in pro 6:6-7.
I just loved them. Those guys are real restless beast!
 A little sleep, a little slumber and poverty clothes a man like a rag King Solomon included..
 
I aint saying you become a workaholic. Not at all.
You got to relax well but learn to maximize time especially the night hour. Transactions are made in the night. Productivity arises at day time.. 

So as you play around  and even snor away your wealth in the night Great men burn candle on there brain.
 Don't burry your life online doing nothing..
Great men don't just  sleep away a second for nothing.
Sleep partners with poverty.
watchit
 Let every second count.
The unit of destiny is Time! 
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#Thinknation




Friday, June 5, 2020

BLACK AND BLESSED...

 Celebrate Beauty with brains...
Black and blessed!!!

RAPE YOUR POVERTY NOT HUMANS. THIS IS GETTING OUT OF HANDS

IT IS NOT JUST AN "ANIMALISH" ACT, IT IS ALSO ENTIRELY  DEVILISH!!!! 
YOU ALSO MEAN TO TELL ME THAT A GIRL OF 4,5 7..... YEARS SEDUCES  TOO. LETS WORK TO END ALL THESE..
AT THE END OF IT ALL MORE THAN 90% OF RAPE VICTIMS ARE GIRLS...YOU CAN RAPE YOUR POVERTY, NOT GOD DESIGNED PEOPLE!!!
Sometimes I just wonder why girls are always at the receiving end of cruelty!
SAY YES TO CHASTITY!
SAY NO TO OTHER FORMS OF RAPE!!!
SAY YES TO SEXUAL DISCIPLINE AND PURITY!!!

Thursday, June 4, 2020

WHY RAPE?

That's the recent trend in town. Well it is as old as mankind...
    R. A. P.E !
 
    When have our morality and conscience become so reprobated.There is no reason whatsoever to approve rape.
Personally I do not buy the idea of premarital sex, but rape is individually and generally perceived as evil.


  The issue of rape is more of an offense perpetrated by the masculine gender.
This for me is not just a scourge of sexual abuse but an uncontrollable influence of lustful appetite accompanied by demonic elements.

     Saying that indecent dressing by the female folk is the cause of such a defamatory act is indeed laughable. How does that even sound to the ear?
    "So Mr Akin raped because Miss Bimbo dressed revealing and " half naked ", so I devoured her like a sumptious prey".
What an utter gobbledygook?
Entirely cynical.

    Sure, a woman's dressing could be appealing to your hormonal appetite. The powerful(your third leg) man between your two legs could even rise in it glory.... Yes its natural but whatever you feel could still die down. Yes, depending on you. One of the qualities that bestows our unflinching dignity as man is the exercise of dominion and control...
    

     No one just raped. A rapist have been raping up girls in his small mind and for lack of control of his thought pattern he practiced his thought on an innocent girl.
I have noticed raping with the animals. Have you not?
It always happen with the cock and the hen! The hen never agrees on mutual terms. It is always rape! The cock take it by force. But are we animals?
 
    Guys, this isn't good on us. We aren't animals. Common. Great ladies you also need to watch your self if you do not rape in your own way. If you don't facilitate them by your own attitude and show biz..

   For no reasonable guy just decide to rape any kind of girl. It happens once in a thousand  case that a well dressed, well mannered girl with a rare print of good character is raped! Beware of your association. Most rape victims were not the original targets. Not for sensuality reasons, looking just good and well covered looks better on you. It speaks of your reputation and feminity. 

   Don't be among the class of the street "runz" girls.
Most rape victims are simply amateur rape candidates, only that they got what the love doing (sleeping around) the violent way. Be wise enough with your dealing with friends and colleagues! They could implicate you even when your are heavily armed with the shield of decency and good manners. You need the wisdom of the serpent.
    
      Big guys our destiny is too great just to end on the footage of rape or any 'Delilah's syndrome. 
        Learn to give your erection direction'.
     No matter how it push chastity still pays. No one is an exemption here. The guys and men alike.
         Master the art of being busy and focused.
When you got works to do you will have less time for evil thoughts which matures weightier in rape.. You see that age long adage;
          " An idle man is a devils workshop".
   Its very true. An idle man us equally a devils tool. Not just the workshop.
  
   Watch your thoughts! Guide the gates of your life. Be careful what you feed your ears, your eyes and other sensitive parts of your body. Stay with the right people..
  Sexual molestations and rape don't just happen. They are not entirely demonic!
Spirits don't operate or manifest without our permission. They don't just come to finish you, they come to finish what you have started. 

    Why deliberately visit porn sites, consciously play with the sexual organs and do all manner. That to you may be normal right? But I tell you a porn addict or a Casanova is a potential rapist. A guy who has built himself on these addictive elements, will wake up one day not finding a client, and with the insane insatiable hunger then an experiment on an innocent girl... What's the excuse?
        
       "She dressed revealing".
       "I don't know what came over me..
        "Its the devil".... What an excuse!

      Let's not give the devil a chance. Those little stuff you run around secretely could be preparing a grave for your obituary!
Stay out of every negative elements that defiles your mind.....
  

     King Solomon said accurately that out of the heart (subconscious mind) flows the issues of life! So a prostitute has been on rehearsals deep in her mind. So is a criminal and other negative personalities.
 
Resist that demonic voice when it calls. You don't give the devil any room In your heart, and expect them just there. He is an oppurtunist. He will gradually take over the entire house to your own ruin.. Does that not tell why rape of minor is on the increase. It is not ordinary.

   To rape a 4 years old girl. Thats a combined effort of the rapist and the devil. So when you give the devil a chance  for sex experiment, be rest assured he gonna invite more devils. Ask Mary Magdalene.  Maybe the spirit of rape comes along. 

   Funny it is but i have seen people liberated from strong demonic sexual oppression. Ask how it started. It was just a 2min sex or a simple act of masturbation. Your mind is fully involved too. Little wonder some folks continue the fun act in there dreams...
   
     Yes the devil is involved but not without your permission.. You need both a conscious and spiritual alertness in handling  sexual seducing voices. Be smart, pray always and stay out of the negatives.....

     Not just for rape, but this writeup is to rebuke the negative effect of sexual perversion in our society today. When a young girl says she is still virgin, we laugh her to scorn. It is almost old fashion to stay sexually pure. But that's an error. 


    There are both natural, spiritual and medical rewards for staying safe sexually.
Am not necessarily talking about being a virgin. Someone exist who was raped or one who lived a wild life before changing a new life. Hurray! such a person is a new creature. 

   Enjoy your new Christian experience and do not go back to Egypt (old life). But f by any means you are still intact sexually let your life show it. Some acclaimed virgins are far worse in there secret lifestyles and public attitudes. Our target here is sexual purity and chastity.

Let's honor God especially if we call ourselves Christians. Aside religion, morality and many cultural religions of the world abhors rape. 
If you don't fear God, at least you should be afraid of STDS...
 

    This is also  a message of love to the psychologically displaced people suffering from rape, depression and guilt. Maybe you were once a rapist but now changed. We all have a past. I had my own flaws too. 

   Be not disturbed darling..dont live a life of regret. You still have a full life to live. Allow  God heal your deep wound. Stay fine and happy. We care about you. We admire and love you alot! It was for this Jesus died. So relax and wear a smile.


  We can still live without sexual perversion.
You can still wait till you are legally  bound.
You can still control your urge!
 Work towards erasing those negative files in your mind by replacing them with good ones..
Man of God, don't visit a sister who leaves alone in a lonely house.
Don't lock up the doors and windows in the name of prayers alone with a sister.
Except you have just water running through your vein...
 
 Indecent dressing isnt enough reason for rape. 
No sane person  forcefull takes an apple from a store simply because it looks so attracting and palatable. 
No one becomes a slave in his father's house without his consent....
but please in all all, ladies dress well. we know you are beautiful. Truth is we admire you more when you are decently dressed. Bad dresses attract the wrong persons to you.


  Don't advertise your "goods" flaunting your natutal endownement as you always say. Whats the motive? Every reasonable gentle man knows that the beauty of a woman is beyond the outward curves and phisique. Don't be that cheap a commodity dear. I studied about Dinah and learnt she was a walkabout! Stop roaming the street and when you go through the unknown and secluded paths, don't go alone! Avoid self isolation! 

   Except for COVID reasons, lols, ladies learn to go out with your trusted clicks especially in secluded areas. No matter what the reason is. Pray with people too in worship places.  Rapist seems not to have value for sacred and holy places again.
Any one can rape and be raped! Believe me, if you are not careful enough you could be used by the devil..


   Be smart, be wise as the serpents and never forget to always stay on Gods words.  We live in a wicked world human security, intellect and wisdom can still fail....
War has been declared against all sort of sexual harassment and molestations. Be ready to fight! Let's combat rape!
End-all-form-of-premarital-sexual-gratification
#Endrape
#chastitypays
#chastitycampaigne
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Wednesday, June 3, 2020

GEORGE FLOYD-----what's wrong with being a black?---------


    Even the unborn child must have heard about the story. Its no longer a news..That ofcourse is the trending saga about the brutal execution of an innocent black guy George floyd.

   " To be black and simply different; both of those things at the same time in America, or in the world, is just some difficult stuff,” they said. “It’s beautiful I tell you, but other people make it suck.”

 It still amazes me how we still live in the dark old days of slavery and racism.
How that a mans heart is made of bloody stone coated in a bully rag of a cop. Who is a cop? One whose soul is trapped in deadly hate or one who hears a case meticulously before futher legal action?

Who is George Floyd?
An animal or a human?
What's wrong with being a black?
The skin colour?
Voice tone?
Or just  a natural antecedence?
Stop the hate...
There are too many marthin Luther king living!
#justice-must-prevail
#save-the-black-race
George-floyd-lives-on
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Tuesday, June 2, 2020

What we call maturity.

      What do we call maturity and independence?
   
     In a bid to attain a mindset of Independence, so many people have actually come to a state of severe harm than attaining any good.

   A girl is told that a good test of maturity is being able to endure....it's called forbearance. So she is in an abusive relationship or marriage. Walking around with her black eyes and she is forced to maintain that she is alright and infact married to the best man in the world.

    A guy is taught that men don't cry. So in all their struggles and questions, they make efforts to man up. The way of life is to drown the whole thing with sex and alcohol.

   How has this culture left our society?
Victims every where. Lately, rapists have been the matter on ground; consider the young man who subdued the girl and amidst her pleas for help still goes ahead to plunge into her. Believe me, that young man was not always like that... how did we get here.

   Consider a typical street harlot, hope we know that she was once a virgin...and then one thing led to another and here we are.
It's quite easy to judge, probably because nobody has heard their story.

   However, the Bible tells us that there is nothing new under the sun. Yes, we are in the last days, but the paths we walk have been faced by many before us. Some people have gained some knowledge by experience. There is no harm in seeking help.

   It's okay to cry out sometimes...instead of locking it up. Biko. It might not be a panacea but at least, it's better than carrying the weights all alone.

  Fathers, elders, mentors, come open with your stories. Stop hiding your scars; tell us what you saw on your way up. You never can tell whose deliverance you are holding.
May God continue to help us in Jesus name..

By Igwe Chinaza(blogger cum story teller).
  
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